Let me take you back to 2022.
My husband, Pat, and I were standing in our kitchen—not speaking. It wasn’t a fight exactly, but it was worse in some ways.
Because the opposite of love isn't hate... it's indifference.
How did we get here?
Despite living, parenting and even working together, it felt like we were seldom on the same page. The connection we had in our early days felt buried under stress, responsibilities, and… just life.
One of us was obsessed with personal growth and it felt like the other avoided it at all costs. Which made us both wonder if we wanted different things.
I'm not one to "settle", so I found myself asking...
Is this it? Is this all marriage is supposed to be?
One night, after yet another of those conversations where we talked in circles but never got anywhere—Pat said something I’ll never forget:
“I miss us.”
It hit me like a ton of bricks.
I missed us, too.
That’s when I knew we needed a change, so we did all the things you're supposed to.
Except they didn't really work.
Therapy felt too focused on problems.
Date nights felt superficial.
And every book or video I found seemed to suggest the same tired advice:
Talk more. Be vulnerable. Communicate.
But "communicating more" seemed to make our lack of connection WORSE.
A series of events led me to connect the dots.
We were spread too thin in our relationship.
And we had fallen into a pattern of "fixing" that turned each partner into a walking reminder of all the things that needed to get done.
No wonder we dreaded spending "quality time" together!
So I had a crazy idea - what if we brought vision and structure to our relationship the way we had done for our $2.4M business?
What if we ditched date night and instead had a business meeting for our marriage?
We called it The Together Tracker.
From the very first session, where we created the space to really dig into what we each wanted and how well we were meeting our own expectations for what a partner should be, something magical happened.
The butterflies came back!!!
Because suddenly, we could see that we actually wanted the same things. And we could also see what was standing in our way so we could team up.
We made a bunch of mistakes as we tested and refined the process.
Over time, the act of showing up consistently unlocked a transformation we hadn’t expected:
◦ We stopped having circular arguments and found ways to disagree and commit.
◦ We started dreaming together again, like we did when we were dating;
◦We discovered small, actionable ways to feel closer—even on busy days.
And perhaps most surprisingly? We realized that we were BOTH committed to growth. We just had very different styles for approaching it.
Unlike therapy, which often focuses on “what’s wrong,” the Tracker shifts your attention to what’s already going right and helps you build on it.
Here’s how it works:
1. Dream Together Again: It brings back the excitement of your early days by focusing on shared goals and vision.
2. Take Responsibility: Since each partner's focus is on improving themselves, you get back a much-needed sense of control, while simultaneously inviting your partner to participate in the ways that work for you.
3. High leverage: Using 80/20 thinking as a core concept, you’ll discover small, high-leverage actions that create outsized impact with minimal effort so you can build momentum that sticks.
The Tracker is NOT about “fixing” your partner or dredging up every past grievance. It’s about taking full ownership of your own growth and inviting your partner to join you on the journey.
So you get back what you crave: a sense of control. But you do it WITHOUT needing to control the other person.
If you’re like us, your days are packed. Between work, family, health struggles and a million other responsibilities, finding time for connection can feel impossible.
That’s why the Together Tracker is designed to be simple and efficient. Each session takes just 90 minutes, but the ripple effects last all week.
Truthfully, you're probably already spending double or triple that time arguing, repairing or avoiding your partner.
And if your partner isn’t the “talk-it-out” type? That’s okay. The structure of the Tracker makes it easy for both of you to participate without pressure.
◦ A Step-by-Step Framework: Clear, guided instructions to make your sessions effective from the very first meeting;
◦ Two Video Trainings to support the Together Tracker experience;
◦ Visioning Exercises: Rediscover what excites you as a couple and start dreaming together again (even if one partner is resistant);
◦ A Growth Focus: Focus instead on what moves the needle in your relationship so you prevent (instead of needing to fix) problems.
About 3 weeks after we did our first Tracker session, I was talking to a recently divorced girlfriend about the miraculous transformation Pat and I were experiencing.
For context, just a month earlier, I had confessed to her that perhaps I had outgrown my own marriage.
"People don't change," she had said, implying that I needed to either accept the marriage I was in or break up.
The Tracker proved to me that there was a third way
Ironically, it DID prove my friend right (in a sense). People don't change. But now I was connected to the version of my husband that had made me want to marry him. Not the tired, overwhelmed version he'd turned into. He hadn't changed the way I thought he had. And I had found a way to connect him (and me) back to the person he was at his core.
Turns out, the kind of marriage we both wanted was one where each partner had permission to grow and evolve. And now we had a way to nurture that growth in ourselves and each other.
The Tracker helps you grow together instead of growing apart.
Save time + emotional energy!
Before we started using it, every disagreement felt like it cost us hours, sometimes even days, of emotional disconnection. It wasn’t just the fight itself, but the exhausting process of cooling off, reestablishing trust, and trying to figure out why we were so mad so we could advocate for our needs.
The Tracker gave us a way to meet those needs in an unexpected and indirect way.
Instead of trying to control or change the other person, we each focused on defining, communicating and working on the changes we were trying to make on ourselves. And we invited each other in to support the process. Now we could see evidence that the other person was trying.
And there's nothing sexier than witnessing someone working to master themselves.
Instead of draining our energy on repair, we now had a process to build something sustainable: trust, understanding, and forward momentum.
Save money and focus on what matters!
Those 90 minute meetings that we did in our jammies did more for our relationship than $250/h therapy sessions or fancy dinners and expensive gifts.
Because we were giving each other what actually moves the needle in long term romantic relationships: a sense that our struggles matter.
And the reassurance (by action, not just word) that we were in it together.
Think about it:
◦ How many hours have you spent cooling off after a fight?
◦ How often have you avoided bringing up an issue, only to feel the tension simmering beneath the surface?
◦ How much energy have you wasted trying to convince yourself that your needs don't matter and that it's better to keep the peace?
With the Tracker, those 90-minute sessions became an investment—not just in our marriage, but in our growth as individuals. And the ROI?
Priceless. ❤️
I noticed it immediately - where I had been unconsciously bracing for a disagreement when Pat walked in the room, I now felt open and inviting.
We laughed more. And yes, we made love more and had that fizzy dating energy about us that made our kids roll their eyes.
The Together Tracker isn’t about adding one more thing to your to-do list. It’s about creating a foundation that makes everything else easier.
It’s about:
◦ Finding small, high-leverage actions that create outsized impact.
◦ Dreaming together again, instead of drifting apart.
◦ Demonstrating in real time what a strong, healthy marriage looks and feels like to any children present.
Ready to reimagine what’s possible in your relationship?
Whether your marriage feels "beige" or whether you're still in the honeymoon period, having a framework to consciously build connection and growth into your relationship's culture is the gift that will keep on giving.
The sooner you begin, the sooner you’ll see what becomes possible—what it feels like to dream together again, to build trust and understanding effortlessly, and to transform small moments into the foundation of a thriving relationship.
You could be experiencing a renaissance in your relationship as early as tonight!✨
Pat and I weren’t the only ones to experience this transformation.
Here’s what others have shared after using the Tracker in their own relationships:
Put your focus on the 20% that really counts and will give you the most immediate results:
What you each want more of
Put your focus on the 20% that really counts and will give you the most immediate results:
What you each want more of
A library’s worth of relationship books
$250/session couples therapy that felt like jury duty
Expensive date nights that made the awkwardness and loneliness worse
We knew our kids were watching - and that our actions, not our words, would shape their view of what marriage could be.
So we took action.
A library’s worth of relationship books
$250/session couples therapy that felt like jury duty
Expensive date nights that made the awkwardness and loneliness worse
We knew our kids were watching - and that our actions, not our words, would shape their view of what marriage could be.
So we took action!
A deep-dive video training recorded by Geeta to guide you through the Together Tracker process
A deep, detailed printable guide - clear instructions on the cadence and two distinct type of Tracker meetings.
Bonus Module: "The Right Mindset To Change"
How to set up your weekly meeting without a babysitter
What to talk about so you don’t fight —learn to use creative prompts and structured reflection to keep things light and productive
How to choose and share your personal growth goals
without feeling judged or misunderstood
A checklist to ensure you don’t accidentally skip a crucial step in the process
How to use the Together Tracker solo or with a business bestie (if you don’t have a spouse or partner)
How to build Connection Journeys —with yourself, your partner, and others, creating deeper bonds and mutual understanding
Examples of how to adapt the Tracker to fit your relationship
Reflection prompts that work for both personal and shared growth
Tips to create and track meaningful action steps
so you can stay focused on the 20% of actions that create 80% of the results
How to create momentum in tough weeks using curiosity and creativity rather than pressure or perfectionism
Guidelines for aligning on shared goals
while respecting individual differences and preferences
Pro tips to troubleshoot common challenges
Quarterly transition advice to refresh your goals and deepen your connection every three months
A video training recorded by Geeta to guide you through the Together Tracker process
A deep, detailed printable guide - clear instructions on the cadence and two distinct type of Tracker meetings
Bonus Module: "THE RIGHT MINDSET TO CHANGE"
How to set up your weekly meeting without a babysitter
What to talk about so you don’t fight—learn to use creative prompts and structured reflection to keep things light and productive
How to choose and share your personal growth goals without feeling judged or misunderstood
A checklist to ensure you don’t accidentally skip a crucial step in the process
How to use the Together Tracker solo or with a business bestie (if you don’t have a spouse or partner)
How to build Connection Journeys—with yourself, your partner, and others, creating deeper bonds and mutual understanding
Examples of how to adapt the Tracker to fit your relationship
Reflection prompts that work for both personal and shared growth—including celebrating wins, identifying challenges, and brainstorming solutions together
Tips to create and track meaningful action steps so you can stay focused on the 20% of actions that create 80% of the results
How to create momentum in tough weeks using curiosity and creativity rather than pressure or perfectionism
Guidelines for aligning on shared goals while respecting individual differences and preferences
Pro tips to troubleshoot common challenges
Quarterly transition advices
to refresh your goals and deepen your connection every three months
It improves your relationship without “fixing” it
It respects each partner’s individuality
Intimacy starts with
Small Shifts,
Big Impact
THE TOGETHER TRACKER?
Empowered individuals ready for change: People who know they want more for their relationship and are willing to do the work—with the right guidance.
Long-term couples who’ve lost their spark: Whether you’ve been together for 5 years or 25, the Tracker helps reignite the connection and excitement you once had.
Busy partners looking for simplicity: Couples who want to deepen their relationship without adding hours of effort to their schedules.
Those who crave intentionality: If you value growth, trust, and shared vision, the Tracker is your tool to make it happen.
Solo entrepreneur preparing for future relationships
Entrepreneurs with non-entrepreneur partners
Power couples running separate businesses
Couples running a business together
THE TOGETHER TRACKER?
Entrepreneurs with non entrepreneur partners
Power couples running separate businesses
Couples running a business together
Long-term couples who've lost their spark
Solo entrepreneurs preparing for future relationships
Power couples runningseparate businesses
Couples running a business together
Long-term couples who've lost their spark
It improves your relationship without “fixing” it:
It respects each partner’s individuality
Intimacy starts with
Big Impact
We're confident the Together Tracker will provide clarity and transformation. Sometimes this means strengthening your relationship, and sometimes it means gaining the clarity to move forward separately.
Both outcomes represent success.
If you actively engage with the program and feel it didn't deliver valuable insights, we'll honor our money-back guarantee.
Email your completed Tracker and feedback to us with "Refund Request" in the subject line.
Note: "My partner won't participate" is not grounds for a refund, as the Together Tracker is designed to be effective even when used solo.
We designed this program because it worked for us, and we're committed to helping you experience the same relationship transformation.
We're confident the Together Tracker will provide clarity and transformation. Sometimes this means strengthening your relationship, and sometimes it means gaining the clarity to move forward separately.
Both outcomes represent success.
If you actively engage with the program and feel it didn't deliver valuable insights, we'll honor our money-back guarantee.
Email your completed Tracker and feedback to us with "Refund Request" in the subject line.
Note: "My partner won't participate" is not grounds for a refund, as the Together Tracker is designed to be effective even when used solo.
We designed this program because it worked for us, and we're committed to helping you experience the same relationship transformation.
Geeta’s journey into 80/20 thinking began during one of the toughest periods of her life—a time when she felt stretched thin between family, work, and her own needs.
Determined to find a better way, she embraced the principles of simplifying and amplifying, focusing on the small, meaningful actions that bring the greatest rewards. These principles didn’t just change her marriage—they sparked a passion for helping others discover how to thrive in their closest relationships while pursuing their boldest goals.
Whether you’re building a business, strengthening a marriage, or simply trying to create more meaning in your life, Geeta’s work proves that the smallest changes have the power to create transformative results.
Geeta’s journey into 80/20 thinking began during one of the toughest periods of her life—a time when she felt stretched thin between family, work, and her own needs.
Determined to find a better way,
she embraced the principles of simplifying and amplifying, focusing on the small, meaningful actions that bring the greatest rewards. These principles didn’t just change her marriage—they sparked a passion for helping others discover how to thrive in their closest relationships while pursuing their boldest goals.
Whether you’re building a business, strengthening a marriage, or simply trying to create more meaning in your life, Geeta’s work proves that the smallest changes have the power to create transformative results.
90 minutes/week
Lifetime access
Real connection
Endless therapy ($250+/hour)
More awkward date nights
Stay disconnected (and risk worse)
Average divorce cost: $40K
The choice is yours.
But remember: Your kids are watching and creating their own blueprint
90 minutes/week
Lifetime access
Real connection
Endless therapy ($250+/hour)
More awkward date nights
Stay disconnected (and risk worse)
Average divorce cost: $40K
The choice is yours.
But remember: Your kids are watching and creating their own blueprint.
Still love each other but feel disconnected
Want to grow together again
Need structure, not therapy
IMPORTANT NOTE: If you're dealing with serious issues like infidelity or abuse, please seek professional help first. The Tracker is designed for healthy relationships that need reconnection, not rescue.
Still love each other but feel disconnected
Want to grow together again
Need structure, not therapy
IMPORTANT NOTE: If you're dealing with serious issues like infidelity or abuse, please seek professional help first. The Tracker is designed for healthy relationships that need reconnection, not rescue.
*Names changed to protect privacy
*Names changed to protect privacy
Yes! Why? Because you're reintroducing possibility (instead of a problem focus) while simultaneously creating the structure to actually move each partner forward towards that possibility. It puts each partner in charge of their own growth with the other partner being a "co-pilot". So there's no nagging, no policing and each partner goes at their own pace to create lasting change.
The short answer: yes.
Because the Tracker puts you firmly in charge of your own needs and your own growth (with your partner as a co-pilot). This means you can move forward with or without your partner's collaboration and make the change you really need.
We believe it will work for almost every couple because taking this sort of no-blame control of your own growth makes things exceptionally clear.
You will know exactly what you each need to do to get dramatic results and, if your partner deliberately sabotages the process, you will have all the information you need to make a calm, considered decision about the kind of relationship you want and whether or not your partner is the one for you.
So there's really no way for the process to fail you. You get clarity and a game plan no matter what.
Because Geeta went through Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and struggled with brain fog for a time, we needed a process that gave us dramatic, marriage-saving results with as little effort as possible.
What makes the Tracker different is that it uses business principles like 80/20 thinking to identify the most important actions that make the biggest difference.
So we quit trying to solve all our problems and instead focused on putting all our energy towards the handful of things that truly changed the culture and atmosphere of our home.
So yeah, it's simple. You could get started within 2 hours of purchasing the product (enough time to print our checklist, watch the training videos and get settled). No need to spend 8 hours reading a relationship book and struggling to remember all the things while your partner checks out and doesn't do the work.
Instead, just follow the structure with the mindset we talk about in one of the training videos and watch the magic unfold. From the very first meeting.
Simple. Fast. Effective.
Absolutely! The Together Tracker is now an online course module rather than just a PDF, and your enrollment includes lifetime access including any improvements and updates we make.
You’ll receive a comprehensive, downloadable, printable guide along with a step-by-step video training from Geeta, covering the two distinct phases of the Together Tracker.
Because it’s all hosted online, you can revisit the materials anytime. In fact we recommend re-watching the training once per quarter because, as you practice the method, your own understanding will expand and shift and new layers will be revealed.
EVERYONE who uses the Together Tracker is technically a solo practitioner. This is because your core focus is on understanding yourself, learning to advocate for your own needs, tracking your own progress and sharing insight.
Your partner is essentially a co-pilot - along for the ride and there for support but not essential to the journey.
It may seem paradoxical to focus on yourself to create connection, but it is WHY the Tracker works so well (and is so different from the heavily communication-focused approaches that most relationship experts and therapists use).
The Together Tracker is about taking full responsibility for your part in your partnership and creating the space for your partner to do the same.
In fact, since you're the purchasing partner, you automatically become the "facilitator" of the process and a guide to your partner. Therefore doing the process solo for a couple of weeks will help you understand it that much better.
If you believe your partner may be reluctant or resistant (which is unsurprisingly common with couples who have lost connection), we recommend purchasing The Yes Path.
This companion resource includes a step-by-step invitation script and a short video training to guide you in approaching your partner in such a way that they'll feel like it was their idea.
The Yes Path will be offered to you at the next step, so you’ll have everything you need to create an inviting and positive conversation that melts their resistance and puts both of you into "dating" energy.
Can I start without my partner?
EVERY user of the Together Tracker is technically a solo practitioner, so in a way, you're no different from someone whose partner jumps enthusiastically into the process.
Choosing the solo track to start has many benefits, especially if you're not used to doing guided or structured coaching activities with your spouse (and think they might resist).
✅ Gain clarity on what truly matters to you in your relationship.
✅ Learn to communicate your needs without pressure or resentment.
✅ Lead by example—small shifts in how you show up can transform the dynamic.
✅ Understand the process by DOING (instead of just intellectually). This way, when your partner jumps on board, you'll be in a much better position to facilitate.
And since we're very into real talk, let's just lay all our cards on the table.
The clearer and calmer and more confident you get about what you want, the more calmly you can advocate for yourself. And while it is uncommon, there's a chance you might end up realizing that your partner is no longer the one for you. Doing the Tracker solo can actually become a lifeline in such a circumstance and help you focus on the exact actions you need to take in order to take care of yourself and be a great partner TO YOURSELF and any dependents.
Just because the fairytale didn't go according to expectations doesn't mean we can't pivot and write a brilliant next chapter!
Yes. We can tell you right now that simply reading it or watching the video will NOT change your life. You have to actually DO the exercise.
We stand by the quality of our work. So if you actually try it - which means you do the visioning meeting and choose your journeys and actually submit your fully filled out Tracker sheets it and it still doesn't bring you clarity and progress, we'll GLADLY refund you IN EXCHANGE for some detailed and constructive feedback.
This way, things stay fair.
After all, we're giving you full access (for life) to our intellectual property. Once you download it, it becomes yours to keep. If it truly doesn't live up to expectations, you giving us feedback that helps us improve it for others gives us what we need to be successful long term.
And this way, both parties walk away better for having met. You have at least some insight (and all your money back) and we get feedback that helps us serve our clients better.
Win-win.
To summarize: If you aren't sure you're actually going to DO THE WORK and use the Together Tracker, now may NOT be the time to purchase.
There's no transformation without risk and effort.
We want the Together Tracker to be a win for everyone involved. That's what good partners do! ❤️
Each session takes about 90 minutes (which is shorter than the average date night). It's broken into clear steps that keep the meeting focused and efficient. It’s designed to fit into busy lives and deliver results right from the very first meeting.
YES. Just like you need to brush your teeth or work out to first get results and then maintain them, the Tracker is a tool that uses the compounding of small, meaningful actions taken consistently to do its magic.
Yes, you'll see results and feel closer right from the very first meeting. And yes, you will be tempted to think that you don't need any maintenance once you feel that connection.
We know from our own experience and from coaching other couples that if you skip too many meetings, you will likely relapse into whatever pattern brought you to us in the first place.
Does this mean you can sometimes skip a meeting due to travel or illness or some other exigent circumstance? Of course! But results require ongoing maintenance.
Yes! The Tracker is designed to be flexible. While it provides a clear structure, you’re encouraged to tweak it to better suit your goals, preferences, and lifestyle.
If you're in a situation that is atypical, we recommend you purchase our Master The Together Tracker course which will reveal the WHY behind every single step so that you know what you're doing when you make adaptations.
Most relationship tools focus on communication. Unfortunately, most couples simply use these tools to "communicate better" about their grievances and problems.
And when already disconnected, this can create the impression that the relationship = problems.
The Together Tracker takes a different approach that combines the following:
1. We vision together and turn our focus from problem to... possibility and potential.
2. We use disciplined business thinking to identify the handful of actions that will create the most dramatic improvements.
3. We have a structured weekly process to deliberately progress on those key actions.
So the vision actually becomes a reality AND you have a ton of fun connecting along the way.
If you know you don't want yet another "project" and actually want to have fun while making positive change in your relationship, the Together Tracker is the tool for you.
Most relationship tools focus on communication. Unfortunately, most couples simply use these tools to "communicate better" about their grievances and problems.
And when already disconnected, this can create the impression that the relationship = problems.
The Together Tracker takes a different approach that combines the following:
1. We vision together and turn our focus from problem to... possibility and potential.
2. We use disciplined business thinking to identify the handful of actions that will create the most dramatic improvements.
3. We have a structured weekly process to deliberately progress on those key actions.
So the vision actually becomes a reality AND you have a ton of fun connecting along the way.
If you know you don't want yet another "project" and actually want to have fun while making positive change in your relationship, the Together Tracker is the tool for you.
Most relationship tools focus on communication. Unfortunately, most couples simply use these tools to "communicate better" about their grievances and problems.
And when already disconnected, this can create the impression that the relationship = problems.
The Together Tracker takes a different approach that combines the following:
1. We vision together and turn our focus from problem to... possibility and potential.
2. We use disciplined business thinking to identify the handful of actions that will create the most dramatic improvements.
3. We have a structured weekly process to deliberately progress on those key actions.
So the vision actually becomes a reality AND you have a ton of fun connecting along the way.
If you know you don't want yet another "project" and actually want to have fun while making positive change in your relationship, the Together Tracker is the tool for you.
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